How old does my son have to be to decide which parent he lives with?

This is probably the most common question I get asked regarding custody issues. The short answer is 18. In Florida there is no age at which a child gets to decide who they live with. The child's preference, if they are deemed of sufficient age and maturity, is just one of 20+ factors the Court looks at when making a custody decision. Apparently there are some states where when a child turns 13 (or some other certain age) they do get to decide. Florida law is directly contrary to that.

UPDATE: Bill Becomes Law

Earlier this week, Governor Charlie Crist signed into law SB 904. That bill creates a statutory scheme for parenting coordinators, streamlines relocation litigation, clarifies the modification standard for cases involving parental responsibility, timesharing and parenting plans and establishes clearly the professionals capable of making parenting plan recommendations. This is especially remarkable in a year when little more than 10% of the over 2,000 filed bills passed both houses of the Legislature.

FILING FEES

In the summer of 2008, there was an increase in court filing fees that occurred state wide. What was more shocking for most of us was not that the courts were charging $408.00 rather than $363.00 for a new divorce filing, but that there would be a $295.00 charge for all counter-petitions. Seems like many people around the state are in an uproar over the charge for a counter-petition for dissolution of marriage. Apparently some county clerks (though not Ken Burke here in Pinellas County) are continuing to charge this fee even after the Attorney General issued a formal opinion that stated that the filing fee for counter-petitions was not authorized in family law cases. Now the clerks of the court are subject to a class action suit which has been filed in Hillsborough County about the wrongful charging of these filing fees. It'll be interesting to see how this all pans out, but I would hope that the clerks would have to return these fees to the people who have already paid them and to stop collecting the fees from future counter-petitioners.